Does having a baby ruin a womans body?

Question

Does having a baby ruin a womans body?
My buddy told me that after a woman has a baby that her virgina is never the same, and that her body in general goes downhill after the birth. He said dont push your woman to have a kid if she doesnt want to as shell never be the same. Is this true?

Answer

sI have had a daughter, and I look better now than I did before I had her. There are good things and bad, but it all depends on each individual. Some women can get stretch marks. Others get bigger boobs. For every woman after you have the baby your size down there remains the same. It takes weeks to heal, but it goe back to the way it was. So for me the only bad thing was stretchmarks. I got a bigger butt, which Im not complaining about and bigger boobs. I think that when it comes to bringing another life into this world if you are not wanting to have a baby because of a selfish thing like stretchmarks, then you are not mature enough or fit enough to have a baby anyway...I think most mothers will agree.